Just don’t. If you look closely in their eyes, you see their emotion change. It changes from fierce & uncontrollable, to lost & hurt. It means you have no respect for them. They’ll take it to heart. It means they’re no exception to how you act in an argument towards anyone; like they’re the same as everyone else. But it shouldn’t be the same. Once something is said, they’ll take it to heart, & just give up. Let me tell you.. it’ll hurt them knowing you can’t control your anger towards them, because they’ll think they weren’t worth trying for. It doesn’t matter who started the fight; your relationship should mean more than your pride.